Letting go of how you think things SHOULD go is never easy for your in-control sign, but trust us, surrender is the key to peace of mind! You may think that grasping tighter gives you power over the circumstances, but actually it just perpetuates their toxic influence on your life. The sooner you loosen your grip, the quicker you’ll be able to recover all that wasted energy. Chances are, your fears are far more inflated than the reality of the situation.