Forgiveness work may be in order today as Chiron, the “wounded healer,” spins out of its annual, five-month retrograde. We’re not advising you to reconcile with someone and hope they’ll change. If they’re not personally motivated to evolve in the direction you’d like them to, you’re not likely to see that growth. And it’s not your job to persuade them. Either make peace with who they are or walk away. You’ll feel so much lighter when you sever toxic ties—especially as you step into this new year.